My good friend Nathanial "Cy" Ingram was born on December 5, 1925 and
passed away on Thursday, March 7, 2013. There was no funeral, no
announcement and no wake for this wonderful man. His family, friends
and church only found out this June that he died and was secretly
cremated. We recently held a private memorial service for him and only
family, his church and friends were invited to attend. There, many
wonderful stories of Cy were told as we celebrated his life and
friendship.
Cy was a war hero who earned many awards for his
service to our great country. In the accompanying picture, you can see
Cy proudly displaying the medals, badges and patch he received.
Left to right, rear: Expert Marksmanship Qualification Badge with clasps for Rifle, expert infantryman and four combat actions!
Bronze Star, awarded for acts of heroism, merit or Meritorious service in a combat zone.
Silver Star, the third highest military decoration
for Valor awarded to Cy for gallantry in action against an enemy of the
United States, in this case Nazi Germany. In this one instance he saved
the lives of ten men. Injured and unable to walk, one by one, on his
butt he dragged them away from enemy fire and hoisted each of them over a
stone wall to safety.
Purple Heart, awarded for being injured while serving with the military.
Left to right, front: Victory Medal, awarded to all who served in the military during World War II.
European Theater Medal, with three oak leaf clusters for three years of service there.
Good Conduct Medal awarded to active duty members of the U.S. military who complete three consecutive years of honorable service.
Shoulder patch of the 30th Infantry Division (Old Hickory) who valiantly served in Normandy, France, Germany and the Battle of the Bulge.
One
story which I shared was about Cy's garden. Cy, like a new Antaeus,
had about six acres of back yard and it was laced with flower beds,
fountains, arches and lattice which supported the growth of Trumpet
Vines, Clematis and Wisteria. Among his prized floral arrays were
several Peony beds.
Cy had an addition built onto the back of
his house. It was a large octagon shaped room with a marble fire place
and several double glass doors which could be opened up.
Cy told
me about one spring morning when a woman knocked on his door asking if
she could cut some of his Peony flowers for her wedding that weekend.
Cy asked her where she was getting married and she said that it was
going to be at the court house and performed by a Justice of the Peace.
Cy said,
"Nonsense. Have the wedding in my back yard and you can hold the reception in my octagon room."
She did and Cy even gave her a cash gift. That was the kind of gentle man he was. He is sorely missed.
The
Department of the Aging and family and friends need to be vigilante
against people befriending and tricking our elderly into signing
everything they own over to scrupulous individuals.
Musician Malcolm Kogut has been tickling the ivories since he was 14 and won the NPM DMMD Musician of the Year award in 99. He has CDs along with many published books. Malcolm played in the pit for many Broadway touring shows. When away from the keyboard, he loves exploring the nooks, crannies and arresting beauty of the Adirondack Mountains, battling gravity on the ski slopes and roller coasters.
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